Our thoughts have more power than we recognize. When you glance at your partner getting ready in the morning, what thoughts run through your mind?
"Ugh, why is he so slow?!"
"Damn, I wish she would work out more."
"(*rolls eyes*) If he leaves ONE more sock on the floor!..."
I wonder what would happen if we switched our thoughts to reflect a more positive light. Consider trying...
"Wow, look at God's gift to me."
"I am so lucky to have her as my girl."
"Thank you God for my provision."
Simple changes, but changes that make a big difference. Think about your own self-talk and what comes to mind when you look at your mate.
Thoughts are powerful. Our words, actions and habits all stem from them. You have the power to reframe your thoughts to honor Bae. Give it a shot, good things may happen.
Until next time....